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+ In the

Hairpin

,
A Queer Chick replied concerns
about homophobia, the greatest nail size for lesbians who are and easy) and bisexuality:

“When I was actually but a and unskilled Queer Chick, I spent a shockingly long-time being informed by every lesbian I realized that I was certainly not queer, because I had outdated a boy. Thus, so that you can show that I happened to be in fact The Gayest, we slept along with of these girlfriends.

No, i recently felt awful and insecure about myself personally for quite some time, and ended up being afraid to pursue females because I thought they’d deny me personally for not being queer sufficient, until someday some ineffable transmutation took place as well as no apparent reason we believed prepared to remain large (really, average top. Really, sorts of short, in fact) and state: ‘i prefer children! I would like women a tiny bit additional! Of course, if you disapprove, you happen to be a lot more than welcome to not need sex beside me!'”

+ Goddess of Java blogged in regards to the polyamorous additional commitment card and
not treating folks like situations
:

“we truly have no idea what cheerfully setting up a relationship looks like. I never observed such a thing close hand and getn’t the faintest concept exactly what it appears to be.

The things I can say for certain, is what an effective relationship seems like. The thing I can say for certain is how to treat humankind.

Almost all of the problems illustrated on this card revolve around dealing with individuals as things. It centers around managing them as items for gratification. That isn’t just what love appears to be, but I am sure you are sure that that.”

Related: Solopoly penned about
the grownup examination
, interaction and discussion.

+ Without My Consent has actually a round-up of all the development pertaining to
generating revenge porno illegal
.

+
Have Sex Perhaps Not Porn
is “a start up website designed to shatter the fables of porn and allow one to share their particular intimate moments with a greater audience, providing a real-life demonstration of exactly what gender is in fact like.”

+ great Vibrations features a round-up associated with
Feminist Porn Awards and also the Feminist Porn Conference
, plus the
listing of champions
.

+ Nerve covers
just how gender on tumblr will alter news media
:

“Sex should already be everywhere in United states news media. The mass media are included in a sexy category of performers, singers, musicians, novelists, experts, filmmakers and poets. Every song is about foreplay, fucking or fallout; “Fifty colors of Grey” may be the newest bestseller and a painter’s raison d’etre could be the nude. I recall in Dorothy Allison’s “Bastard out-of Carolina,” the best lady, Bone, masturbates against a tree limb at 12 or 13. Which is sincerity you will never study in a newspaper, and is ironic, because forms should mirror the general public’s interests. Journalism’s for ages been fastened all the way down by two prude dudes: The usa, who chose that governmental news and assault stories are far more appropriate than nude booties. And advertising, whom constantly bows to political temperature or becomes up in arms when an ad is positioned as well close to intercourse. Like a Chevy is more sacred than drilling. Scram, man!”

Here is a poem for your needs, it is from

Just what Living Do
(W. W. Norton & Co., 1998) by Marie Howe:


Exercising

I wish to compose a love poem for all the ladies I kissed in seventh grade,

a tune for what we performed on the floor from inside the cellar

of someone’s parents’ home, a hymn for what we did not say but believed:

That feels good or I really like that, once we learned how to open one another’s lips

just how to move the tongues to produce somebody groan. We called it practicing, and

one ended up being the son, and we matched off—maybe six or eight girls—and turned out

the lights and kissed and kissed until we were stoned on kisses, and lifted all of our

nightgowns or allow the straps fall, and, Now you function as son:

concrete flooring, asleep case or couch, playroom, game place, train area, washing.

Linda’s basement ended up being like a motorboat with booths and portholes

versus windows. Gloria’s parent had a club downstairs with feces that spun,

luxurious flooring. We kissed one another’s throats.

We sucked one another’s tits, therefore we remaining scars, and never spoke from it upstairs

outside, in daylight, perhaps not as soon as. We achieved it, therefore was

exercising, and slept, sprawled so all of our feet nevertheless secured or crossed, a hand nevertheless missing

in a person’s locks … therefore we was raised and rarely mentioned who

the most important kiss to be real—a woman like us, still sticky with lotion we might

provided in the restroom. I want to write a track

for this dense silence at nighttime, and first pure excitement of unreluctant desire,

prior to we’d produced ourselves stop.

–


Kathreen & Lily, picture by hannah gottschalk via
behance

+ a study of 100 (straight) Australian women was utilized to draw some pretty broad results about women and sex (“science proves females like males with bigger penises!”). Even though it’s not queer,
this article precisely how the conventional news exploits “science” to reinforce gender stereotypes
is pretty fascinating:

Within the guise to be backed by clinical power, news retailers will frequently tout researches’ outcomes — or often, selectively highlight specific results — to strengthen
gender-based stereotypes
. Of course, pointing out analysis also sets up a scenario in which it really is more difficult for foes to get issue aided by the many studies, since it
can happen as though they truly are objecting to health-related reality
given that they don’t want to think reality.

+ Friendship is
this new wedding
:

“Those relationships shaped the most common roller coaster drive that is the 20s: break-ups, job losses, late lease checks, evictions, diabolically ill-conceived nights out, and countless moves into fifth-floor walkups. Inside my thirties, we’ve got backed each other through wedding events, household crises, marriage, and kids.

These connections are as near to unconditional as I can aspire to discover, and they’re going to continue throughout my entire life. It’s not difficult for my situation to imagine meeting these women for pleased time on a beach in Miami prior to showing up in early-bird unique at the pension residence cafeteria.

Sadly alike shouldn’t be stated for my romantic connections.

Or even perhaps not unfortunately.”



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